The day you left him with me he did deteriorate before my eyes. It is in my journal too, he was very scared and had THE TALK with me!

Christine Bissonnette

From: Marguerite O'Connor

Sent: Sunday, May 24, 2015 8:54 AM

To: Christine Bissonnette

Cc: Steven Walter Sampert-Connor

Subject: Re: Fwd: Amiodarone - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Sounds good - point two - that was it and was why he died so quickly - seems once it hits its pretty aggressive and would have already gotten worse by the time they they turned off the breathing device - it had only started a couple of weeks before - even the day I left him with you - he must have deteriorated before your eyes - when I got home I had to phone the ambulance and that was the last time he was at home. I don't think they really got how fast this was all happening or at least they didn't know what it was until maybe the very end or after even. The RT in emerg told me he was only alive because of the breathing machine (pretty brutal at the time) since he posed it as a question as if it were my doing - that was one clumsy RT. He must have thought - another old guy with COPD just trying to hang on but until a week before there was no sign of lung disease. Bob like everyone else didn't know what was going on and was going to give it his best shot. A doctor in emerg asked me if we had had THE TALK but it was all new and unexpected to me. He would have died in the ER but they gave him a slim chance because they didn't know what was going on and kept him going.

On Sun, May 24, 2015 at 7:50 AM, Christine Bissonnette <christinebissonnette@rogers.com> wrote:

Journal entry: 27-Apr-2007

I drove very fast to the hospital and it was not long after before the Doctor was ready to speak with us. He sat us down in front of Dad’s cat-scan results and explained it all to us visually so we could see with our own eyes.

Dad’s tumor that he ha s would give him approximately 6 months to live if he had no other problems. And with this tumor there is nothing they can do, no radiation, no surgery. Some patients will die earlier and some may last a little longer.
Dad also has a lung disease and they do not even know what it is. They have exhausted every possible treatment they can to try and clear up some of the lung damage without success. The damage is extensive and it is on both lungs.

What the medical team is going to do is take Dad off life support tomorrow morning at 9am and bring him out of sudation so he can spend whatever time he has left with his family, and hopefully be able to communicate with them. The doctor would also like the chance to explain to Dad what is happening to him if he is capable of understanding this. The problem is they do not know what is going to happen when they take Dad off support, he could only have a few minutes to live or he may hang on for a while before leaving us, however he will not feel any pain as they will keep him comfortable.

p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																50
k	14	Goulden	Charles	m	1812			1895						Starrs	77	50	Ireland
k	77	Starrs	Roseanne	f	1819			1903				1099		Goulden	14	50	Tyrone, Ireland
k	110	Starrs	Michael	m								109				50	Ireland
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																51
	111	Starrs	Robert Alphonso	m									110			51
k	1	Beahen	John	m	1854			1907						Oneil	64	51	cork Ireland
k	81	Goulden	John	m				1845			Starrs	77	14			51
k	82	Goulden	Mary Jane	f				1853			Starrs	77	14			51
k	85	Goulden	Charles J	m				1855			Starrs	77	14			51
k	86	Goulden	Michael	m				1856			Starrs	77	14			51
k	16	Goulden	James	m	1845			1904			Starrs	77	14	Sherraden	76	51
k	15	Goulden	Joseph	m	1848			1879			Starrs	77	14	Buckley		51
k	21	Goulden	William	m	1850			1925			Starrs	77	14			51
k	80	Goulden	Mary	f	1850						Starrs	77	14			51
k	17	Goulden	Robert alphonse	m	1858			1929			Starrs	77	14	Foster	9	51
k	24	Goulden	Daniel Henry	m	1860			1900			Starrs	77	14	Langois	27	51
k	27	Langois	Marie Eliz	f	1862			1893						Goulden	24	51
k	28	Laughran	Domacine	f	1850			1929						Taylor	72	51
k	52	O'Connor	John D	m	1829			1912						O'Connor	43	51	Wexford,Ireland upper-can 1838
k	43	O'Connor	Bridget	f	1835	06		1909						O'Connor	52	51	Wexford,Ireland upper-can 1852
k	64	O'Neil	Ann Margaret	f	1861	05	20							Beahen	1	51
k	76	Sherraden	Helen	f	1853			1930						Goulden	16	51
k	72	Taylor	Charles E	m										Laughran	28	51
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																52
	112	Starrs	RobertAlphonso(jr)	m									111			52
k	3	Beahen	Elizabeth	f	1872	3	16	1964			Oneil	64	1	O'Connor	41	52	Ottawa,Can
k	2	Beahen	Mary	f	1877						Oneil	64				52	Ottawa,Can
k	117	Beahen	Herbert	m	1887	08	24				Oneil	64
k	9	Foster	Sarah	f	1860			1945						Goulden	17	52
k	4	Goulden	Eva	f							Langois	27	24			52
k	5	Goulden	Joseph	m							Langois	27	24			52
k	6	Goulden	Ida	f							Langois	27	24			52
k	71	Goulden	William	m							Langois	27	24			52
k	73	Goulden	Frank	m							Langois	27	24			52
k	74	Goulden	Florance	f							Langois	27	24			52
k	75	Goulden	Clara	f							Langois	27	24			52
k	79	Goulden	Robert	m							Langois	27	24			52
k	25	Goulden	Daniel	m	1878			1895			Langois	27	24			52
k	18	Goulden	Charles E	m	1879			1944			Langois	27	24	Taylor	78	52
k	19	Goulden	James	m	1880						Sherraden	76	16			52
k	20	Goulden	Robert	m	1883						Sherraden	76	16			52
k	29	MacDowell	Lou	f										O'Connor	47	52
k	33	O'Connor	Joseph	m	1858			1913			O'Connor	43	52			52	Ottawa,Can
k	37	O'Connor	Owen	m	1860						O'Connor	43	52			52
k	36	O'Connor	Milvina	f	1862						O'Connor	43	52	Walsh	84	52
k	35	O'Connor	Adelia	f	1866			1949			O'Connor	43	52		0	52
k	41	O'Connor	John George	m	1868			1947			O'Connor	43	52	Beahen	3	52
k	47	O'Connor	Henry	m	1870			1940			O'Connor	43	52	MacDowell	29	52
k	78	Taylor	Theresa Ida	f	1879			1944			Laughren	28	72	Goulden	18	52
k	84	Walsh		m										O'Connor	36	52
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																53
	113	Starrs	Shirley	f									112	McKenna		53
	114	Starrs	Catherine	f									112			53
	115	Starrs	(female)	f									112			53
	116	Starrs	(female)	f									112			53
k	8	Foran	Veronica	f	1901									O'Connor	40	53
k	11	Goulden	Elizabeth	f	1903			1939	12		Taylor	78	18	O'Connor	39	53
k	12	Goulden	Dillon	m	1912			1943			Taylor	78	18			53
k	22	Goulden	Rita	f	1916						Taylor	78	18	Fawcett		53
k	10	Goulden	Mary Dommacina	f	1917			1999			Taylor	78	18	Faust		53
k	13	Goulden	Charles E	m	1919			1989			Taylor	78	18	Nunn	31	53
k	23	Goulden	Taylor	m	1920						Taylor	78	18	Desormeaux		53
k	26	Goulden	Mona	f	1923						Taylor	78	18			53
k	31	Nunn	Edith	f	1920						Harris			Goulden	13	53
k	38	O'Connor	Clyde	m							MacDowell	29	47			53
k	59	O'Connor	Eileen	f							MacDowell	29	47			53
k	39	O'Connor	John Henry	m	1899			1963	12		Beahen	3	41	Goulden	11	53	Ottawa,Can
k	40	O'Connor	Roderick	m	1905			1984			Beahen	3	41	Forn	8	53	Ottawa,Can
k	83	Walsh	Norma	f				1974			O'Connor	36	84			53
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																54
	123	Goulden	Sharon	f	1951	07	16				Desormeaux		23			54
	118	Goulden	mark joseph	m	1958	12	28				Desormeaux		23	Lidstone		54
k	7	Danis	Hugette	f	1932									O'Connor	50	54
k	45	O'Connor	Karen	f							Forn	8	40	Murawsky		54	Ottawa,Can
k	46	O'Connor	Patricia	f							Forn	8	40			54	Ottawa,Can
k	57	O'Connor	Veronica	f							Forn	8	40			54	Ottawa,Can
k	48	O'Connor	John Joseph	m	1930			2002	12	5	Goulden	11	39	McKee		54	Ottawa,Can
k	34	O'Connor	Elizabeth	f	1931			1993			Goulden	11	39	Reid	68	54	Ottawa,Can
k	50	O'Connor	Roderick	m	1932			2011	1		Goulden	11	39	Denis	7	54	Ottawa,Can
k	60	O'Connor	Henry D	m	1933			2005	9	9	Goulden	11	39	MacDonald		54	Ottawa,Can
k	53	O'Connor	Robert	m	1936	8		2007	4	28	Goulden	11	39	Uren		54	Ottawa,Can
k	54	O'Connor	Anthony K	m	1939	9	25				Goulden	11	39	Scott	70	54	Ottawa,Can
k	68	Reid	Joseph Douglas	m	1930			1994			Lavoie(1)			O'Connor	34	54	Ottawa,Can
k	70	Scott	Sharon N	f	1951	3	20				Terryberry	82	71	O'Connor	54	54	Hamilton,Can
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																55
	119	Goulden	ryan walter	m	1980	10	13				Lidstone		118			55	ottawa
	120	Goulden	cailee elizabeth	f	1982	05	15				Lidstone		118			55	ottawa
	121	Goulden	reid adam	m	1983	11	02				Lidstone		118			55	ottawa
	122	Goulden	lianna marie	f	1987	11	09				Lidstone		118			55	scarborough
k	100	MacNeil	Anna-Lyn	f	1970						O'Connor	57	00			55
k	101	MacNeil	Gordie	m	1972						O'Connor	57	00			55
k	102	MacNeil	Leah	f	1976						O'Connor	57	00			55
k	93	Martin	Gordon	m	1961						O'Connor	46	00			55
k	94	Martin	Philip	m	1962						O'Connor	46	00			55
k	95	Murawsky	Christopher	m	1964						O'Connor	45	404			55
k	96	Murawsky	Timothy	m	1966						O'Connor	45	404			55
k	97	Murawsky	Patrick	m	1972						O'Connor	45	00			55
k	99	Murawsky	Gregory	m	1974						O'Connor	45	00			55
k	98	Murawsky	John	m	1980						O'Connor	45	00			55
k	49	O'Connor	Shelley	f							McKee		48	Scarth		55
k	55	O'Connor	Edward	m							MacDonald		60			55
k	56	O'Connor	Donna	f							MacDonald		60			55
k	58	O'Connor	Chris	m							MacDonald		60			55
k	63	O'Connor	Gail	f							MacDonald		60	Watts		55
k	61	O'Connor	Donald	m	1957						Denis	7	50			55
k	51	O'Connor	Kenneth	m	1958			2015	7		Denis	7	50			55
k	42	O'Connor	Richard	m	1959						Denis	7	50			55
k	44	O'Connor	Lyn	f	1962						Denis	7	50			55
	103	O'Connor	Christine	f	1968	12	30				Mayhew		53	Bissonnette		55
	104	Mayhew	Ruth	f	1958	10	22				Mayhew					55	raised by stepfather Robert no.53
	105	Mayhew	Maryanne	f	1962	02	27				Mayhew					55
	108	O'Connor	Dianne	f	195?								53			55	no information
k	124	O'Connor	Kevin Keith	m	1964	05	25	2020	4	22	Philips		54			55	note
k	125	O'Connor	Deborah Kathleen	f	1965	06	06				Philips		54			55	note
k	32	O'Connor	Michael Jordan	m	1972	11	20				Murphy		54			55	note
k	62	O'Connor	Megan Elizabeth S	f	1982	09	19				Scott	70	54	Kome-Pond		55	note
	88	Reid	Katherine	f	1955	10	27				O'Connor	34	68			55	Ottawa Ca
k	65	Reid	Sandra	f	1959	10	29				O'Connor	34	68			55	Ottawa,Can
k	66	Reid	Kirk	m	1963	02	3				O'Connor	34	68			55	Ottawa,Can
k	67	Reid	Carolyn	f	1951	08	28	2003	08		O'Connor	34	68			55	Ottawa,Can
k	69	Reid	Deborah	f	1953	01	7				O'Connor	34	68			55	Ottawa,Can
	200	Strickler O”Connor	James	m	1958	6	6	2016	10	2	Strickler	00	53		0	55	Edmontor Alta
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																56
	106	Gamble - O'Connor	Alisa	f	1987	07	10		103		O'Connor	103		Allen		56
	107	Gamble	Stephen	m	1990	06	18				O'Connor	103				56
k	92	Ipellic	Taina Lu	f	1977	04	26				Reid	69	00			56
k	89	Tomic	Jessica	f	1973	04	19				Reid	67	401			56
k	90	Tomic	Jacob	m	1974	09	26				Reid	67	00			56
k	91	Tomic	Robert	m	1976	11	22				Reid	67	00			56
k	105	Watts	Johnny	m							O'Connor	63	00			56
k	106	Watts	Tommy	m							O'Connor	63	00			56
k	108	Watts	James	m							O'Connor	63	00			56
k	107	Watts	Dillon	m	1987						O'Connor	63	00			56
k	201	Strickler O’Connor	Julie	f							00	00	200	Aitken	0	56	Edmonton Alta
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																57
	202	Aitken	Ariel	f	1999	2	9				Strickler O’Connor	201				57	Edmonton Alta
	203	Aitken	Adanna	f	2000	2	3				Strickler O’Connor	201				57	Edmonton Alta
	204	Aitken	Seth	m	2003	5	9				Strickler O’Connor	201				57	Edmonton Alta
	205	Aitken	Sage	f	2007	10	5				Strickler O’Connor	201				57	Edmonton Alta
p	n	s-name	g-name	s	b-yr	B-m	B-d	d-yr	D-m	D-d	m-s-name	m-#	f-#	s-s-name	s-#	g-c	memo	Lk
																58

	genealogy table notes		123
p	Old code not used
n	record number	d-year	death year
s-name	surname	d-month	death month
g-name	given name	d-day	death day
s	sex	m-s-name	mother's surname
b-year	birth year	m#	mother's record no.
b-m	birth month	f#	father's record no.
b-day	birth day	s-surname	spouse surname
d-year	death year	s#	spouse record no.
d-month	death month	g-c	generation code sorts into generations keith's branch (arrival in canada generation is 50)
memo	memo	Lk	link to supplementary html


GC: 53: Mother:	1903 - 1939	Elizabeth Goulden # 11: death due to after-birth infection: (Keith was a breech-birth) no D&C performed in 1939. her mother: Taylor # 78: 19 pregencies only 7 survived full term. her father: goulden: came from a large sibling family of which 9 survived.
GC: 53: Father	1899 - 1963	ruptured heart - smoker-coronory thrombosis ?
GC: 54: John	1930 - 2002	weak stomach wall - perforated bowl - cancer - lung tumour child-smoker- never quit -weight
GC: 54: Grace	1931 - 1993	stroke - migranes - weight -xsmoker: 5 twin based pregencies only one twin of each survived
GC: 54: Rod	1932 - 2011	x-child & adult-smoker - bloodpressure - cancer - weight- internal organ failure- cancer
GC: 54: Dillon	1933 - deceased	x-child-smoker - stroke - weight
GC: 54: Robert	1936 - 2007	x-child & adult smoker - heart problems - good eyesight reference supplementary information below.
GC: 54: Keith	1939 -	x-child & adult smoker - aggrivated bowel syndrome - consider the probability of CROHNS associated symptoms - weight problems -(birth defect gimp neck), eyesight problems: glaucoma - cataracts - legally blind one eye - blood pressure varies as much as 32 points within 10 min: dignoses:hypersensitive to white coat effect - heel spur - touch of asthma - enlarged prostate - good bone density - good knee joint pads. 2012-Diagnosed pre-cancerous Barrett's Esophagus - 9cm dammage- caused by years of acid reflex - scope and samples required every 24 months. ocular-migranes (zigzag black&white)
GC: 52: O'Connor:GEORGE	1868-1947	enlarged prostate operation - General organ failure at time of death- weight problem

Keith: GC: 54: Over the first decade of the 21st century I have projected my growing understanding of Tourretes and Aspergers symptoms onto memories of both myself and my siblings childhood and adult behaviour. A comparrison of these symptoms with my memories indicates a genetic influence on my intellectual and emotional interactions with others during my life as well as those of my siblings. I have noticed Asperger like symptoms in the mine and my siblings children. The presence of my birth defect - gimp neck - which was corrected by a pre-teen operation strongly indicates possible genetic reproductive problems in the womb. Memories of my siblings indicate that they also came under the same genetic influence as myslef. Unfortunately my siblings departed this life before ever becomming aware of these influences on their own behaviour. It is quite possible that the presence of these genetic tendencies were one contributing factor to the conflicted relationships between and among my siblings. My conclusion is that if I and my siblings could not escape being influenced by these genetic tendencies then neither can our children. An awareness of these symptoms and the ability to self-therapy (a self reflexive consciousness ) can provide procedural solutions and thus normalize interaction with others. - recognize that a part of you wants one thing and another part can assess the probability of reasonableness in terms of life experience and make the correct decision. Remember there is a difference between genetically driven behaviour and personality disorder. It is extreemly difficult to self recognize these symptoms or accept others pointing them out. A book given to me by my son Jordan, (Subliminal : How Your Uconscious Mind Rules Your Behavior by Leonard Mlodinow Vintage Books) , provided me with a great deal of insight into the human condition. A second excellent book that I recently discovered is titled: Meaning in Absurdity, concerning the nature of reality: Dr. Bernardo Kastrup: (iff books)

general geneological links
Liz Szabo's Project on Irish History	Irish Famine 1846 - 49
Irish Domestics in America

above geneology table related links
Starrs page	Bytown Geneology
Brian Jones Information	Bytown History: Assassination of McGee